How to Be a Gentleman: A Contemporary Guide to Common Courtesy

How to Be a Gentleman: A Contemporary Guide to Common Courtesy By John Bridges Bryan Curtis, How to Be a Gentleman A Contemporary Guide to Common Courtesy Should you take a business call on your cellular phone during a dinner date How do you act at a funeral What is the best way to accept a compliment When do you say I m sorry John Bridges answers thes
  • Title: How to Be a Gentleman: A Contemporary Guide to Common Courtesy
  • Author: John Bridges Bryan Curtis
  • ISBN: 9781558535961
  • Page: 482
  • Format: Hardcover
  • How to Be a Gentleman: A Contemporary Guide to Common Courtesy By John Bridges Bryan Curtis, Should you take a business call on your cellular phone during a dinner date How do you act at a funeral What is the best way to accept a compliment When do you say, I m sorry John Bridges answers these questions and in a book for men that combines Emily Post and Miss Manners without being snobbish, boring, or intimidating This book is an indispensable guide forShould you take a business call on your cellular phone during a dinner date How do you act at a funeral What is the best way to accept a compliment When do you say, I m sorry John Bridges answers these questions and in a book for men that combines Emily Post and Miss Manners without being snobbish, boring, or intimidating This book is an indispensable guide for men of all ages who aspire to become gentlemen.
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    1. John Bridges Bryan Curtis

      Librarian Note There is than one author in the database with this name.John Bridges is the author of the bestselling book, HOW TO BE A GENTLEMAN, today s most popular guide to etiquette for the modern man When it comes to handling any issue related to courtesy, common or uncommon whether it s how to use a shrimp fork, how to conduct yourself in a business meeting, or knowing when to turn off your cell phone John is Mr Right Over the course of my life, I ve been to a lot of parties, says John What I ve learned is that it s not enough simply to get invited What s really important is knowing how to behave yourself, so you get invited back A native of Slapout, Alabama, John has served as Classical Music Editor for the Nashville Tennessean, and was an award winning columnist and editor for the Nashville Scene He also gained a wide following as an associate editor for Nostalgia magazine and as an etiquette columnist for Traditional Home.John served for eight years as Director of Cultural Affairs for the City of Nashville A frequent media guest, he has been featured on the Today show, CBS Sunday Morning, and the Discovery Channel He has been profiled in the New York Times and People magazine His advice has repeatedly been sought out by major men s magazines such as Esquire, Men s Health, and Details John is also the co author, along with Bryan Curtis, of eight other books in the Gentlemanners series, a publishing phenomenon that has now sold than 1.25 million volumes, world wide TO BE A GENTLEMAN and other volumes in the Gentlemanners series have been translated into than 15 foreign languages ranging from Spanish and Croatian to Latvian and Vietnamese.

    343 thoughts on “How to Be a Gentleman: A Contemporary Guide to Common Courtesy”

    1. Its difficult for me to rate this book I don t like part of its style, in that it simply describes what the gentleman ought to do with alot less of the why than I would like Manners are not esoteric rules that people memorize, they are the result of consistent courtesy and reflection about the best way to do things They should be intelligible There is however another dimension to learning especially with behavior and relationships, and that is by observing or by doing i.e gentlemanly behavior is [...]


    2. An excellent reference to give as a gift to those friends or relatives who wants to be a better man I m please to had a father to teach me most of the manners and customs included in the book.


    3. Well I was not impressed by this book In this book there are a lot of examples that are out dated and nowadays are not actual but it is understandable because book was written almost 20 years ago I got feeling that book was intended for British citizens and were not meant for wide variety of readers Thou if you are looking for easy reading material and some tips for the first time then take it from shelf and read it.


    4. I took am etiquete course when I was 12, apparently my mother felt I needed a crash course Ultimately I don t know why I read this book.


    5. 1 A gentleman says please and thank you, readily and often.2 A gentleman does not disparage the beliefs of others whether they relate to matters of faith, politics, or sports teams.3 A gentleman always carries a handkerchief, and is ready to lend it, especially to a weeping lady, should the need arise.4 A gentleman never allows a door to slam in the face of another personmale or female, young or old, absolute stranger or longtime best friend.5 A gentleman does not make jokes about race, religion [...]


    6. Pros How to be a Gentleman by John Bridges is overall a interesting and enjoying book One positive aspect of the book is the fact that it is not written as a normal book instead, it is written as a guide with steps, pictures and short paragraphs This makes the book a lot enjoyable because the book does not take a lecture approach, but instead a friendly approach.Another pro of this book is that whenever it uses sophisticated or advanced language it explains the meaning of the word This allows [...]


    7. I just want to say that I am a fan of this etiquette type literature so I am a bit biased , not so much because I take it as literal rules to live by I think people should live exactly as they wish at parties and elsewhere this is what makes life such an adventure , but because I find the arbitrariness and randomness of some of the rules in these books completely hilarious When Bridges follows something that sounds somewhat serious and practical A gentleman always lets his suit jacket sports coa [...]


    8. I seriously read this while I was bored in a Mississippi living room It s a great reminder of why upper class white Southern people are the most boring people imaginable if only I needed reminders


    9. A guide to be a Gentleman with a lot of silly rules But still it is important to note that good manners have not become obsolete.






    10. This is a helpful and short introduction to common etiquette for men Although some of the cellphone use information is outdated, overall it is very useful.




    11. Upon completion of this book my transformation from Jack Black to Ryan Seacrest was complete It was a great review of the basics of gentlemanly manners which are disappearing from today s society.


    12. I remember when my brother saw this book on my shelf Oh, no he exclaimed, Tell me you didn t buy this book Of course, I did, because my perusal in the store lent itself to that end.And I was pleasantly surprised when I sat down to read the whole thing Bridges doesn t just give rules about what to do and what not to do, although a first glance might lead to that conclusion Being a gentleman is not about rules It is, as Bridges observes, about making life easier and making others comfortable And m [...]


    13. Have you ever fiind yourself in a situation where common sense does not offer you a pertinent solution out of an embarrassing situation Reading a book like this will surely put an ease some of your concerns In a world were people tend to be self absorbed than ever this book reminds us how important it is to be kind and attentive to everyone around us The style in which the book is written may seem a bit controversial, giving you the impression that you are reading a bunch of math formulas Witho [...]


    14. I took my father in law to see Kingsmen That turned out to be less than wise, but the premise got me thinking The idea of being a gentleman is passe, but the movie, if nothing else, makes it attractive So I grabbed this book John Bridges has written a book on etiquette, and I recommend it We re confident when we know what to do in social situations, and courtesy and manners are always a good thing As I look back, society has trained me to be brash, egotistical, and boorish A dinner party was ab [...]



    15. I skimmed through this on Booksale and had to keep myself from laughing out loud and encouraging people s judgmental stares.I could think of a few men who need to learn from this book Sure, some advice are common sense, but common sense really isn t that common I had an itch to buy this and give this to a guy I know, but I m sure he isn t worth the effort money.Some snippets 1 A gentleman says please and thank you, readily and often.2 A gentleman does not disparage the beliefs of others whether [...]


    16. I m not a gentleman, but I am curious I read this book on a whim, just to see what it had to say It s a solid text filled with pithy little notes, and longer explanations as necessary, and even some helpful diagrams about things like how to tie a bowtie A quick, easy read even though I didn t agree with everything in it serious political differences, for example, are a great reason to decline an invitation to the White House full of rules of conduct that I wish men would abide by Until they do, [...]


    17. Most things didn t really apply to me because of my young age and also sometimes due to religion For example a lesson in wine in no will I be drinking wine at this age and faith I wouldn t say the courtesies outlined in this book were all encompassing it was a short read I think this is of an addition to Other How To Be a GentleMan books Most of the articles also will probably not apply to young men like those in their prime 25 45 years old But again, I got this book from the library,so I do n [...]


    18. When I was in college, I used to subscribe to Esquire, and back in those days late 70s, early 80s , it contained short bits on how men were expected to behave I rather liked them, and I definitely got something out of them Most of the rest of what I know about how to behave, I picked up from reading many, many novels.That being said, I don t feel like I got a lot out of this book, reading it at 50 As the author acknowledges, most of behavior is determined based on consideration for others, so lo [...]


    19. Written primarily as a series of brief, axiomatic statements about what a gentleman does and does not do, How to be a Gentleman by Bridges provides some updated insight into proper etiquette and how to make others feel comfortable in one s presence.For those who are interested in new ways to be polite and make the people around them feel comfortable and happy, this book will have a few key insights that may be useful tucked in among a great deal of advice that we all hopefully learned growing up [...]


    20. This short volume is intended to be a primer on gentlemanly behavior It s organized as a collection of short pithy comments and guidelines with very little depth.Much of the advice boils down to common sense and should be a review for most people But I definitely had my share of ah ha moments, when I realized I had just never adequately thought through a situation before and was not behaving appropriately I suspect all but the most refined of readers would have similar moments of discovery and f [...]


    21. A dry, basic guide to manners Good enough for what it is and smartly organized, Bridges dishes solid advice on how to be a modern day gentleman Even though I think a lot of what this book has to say is common knowledge, I guess if it truly was common then we wouldn t need this book in the first place I enjoyed the example dialog that illustrates the point Bridges is making in each section, as it comes off as a little cheesy and humorous This book is clearly meant for people with an upper class l [...]


    22. Over a 3.5 avg rating Mom, Dad I owe you Big Time I don t want to come off as a know it all or perfect gentleman but I found this to be a collection of very basic and common sense etiquette I gained very little if anything from this book I gave it two stars because I see it maybe useful for boys or men who weren t as fortunate to learn the basics growing up, or lack common sense, or those that don t know how to be respectful, treat their mothers poorly etc It is, if nothing, thorough Do not expe [...]


    23. I learned useful tidbits such as anytime a person can identify the brand of scent that a man is wearing, he is wearing too much Also if the food set before him is intended to be eaten piping hot or icy cold , and if a gentleman is the first person to be served at his table, he waits for one other person to be served, and then he begins to eat It has a light, practical tone with snippets of advice instead of long lists of rules The book intends to help the gentleman behave in a way that his frien [...]


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